Â Â Â Â My abie and I donâ€™t seem to fit with most people I know into abdl. The reason I say that is most people I talk to have known they were into this for a long time. I think our experience was more likeâ€ yes that movie looks good but I am not sure it is for meâ€ and then years later goingâ€ wow, I canâ€™t believe I waited so long to watch that itâ€™s amazingâ€. Â
Â Â Â I donâ€™t think it matters how long one has liked something. I think it matters more that you do and have something in common to talk about. I didnâ€™t even read very much about it online until becoming a phone mommy. We pretty much did what we liked and talked to very few people about it. Â Â
Â Â Â Â Â I try to have the attitude of I should be able to tell anyone I want and if they donâ€™t care for it then be gone with them. However I canâ€™t bring myself to feel that way 100%. I have friends that talk about their sex positions, or adult movies. I could easily pitch in with â€œoh I like when my hubby is bent over my lap getting spanking in pantiesâ€ but that would stop the conversation I imagine. Why is it ok for â€˜regularâ€™ people to talk openly about what they like and the deviants should feel ashamed or made to smile and nod?
Â Â Â Â Sometimes I wonder what I am afraid ofâ€¦Â