People on the phone and online ask me all of the time if my friends know what I am into or what I do (being a phoneamommy). Some of them do, and the ones I can trust with that are my true friends. It’s not so much that I think the others would hate me for it, but they are a bit close minded and may not understand and therefore judge. I am sure you all have friends like that, like both actually. I used to think that if a person could not accept all of me then I didn’t need them around me at all. My thinking has changed a little but to include that some may not understand or handle it well so it best not to bring it up. No need to create a strain when you don’t have to you know?